refactor(runtime): use upstream EventEmitter

[NathanFlurry]

• Use the pinned upstream events implementation for listener storage, dispatch, and inheritance semantics.
• Retain agentOS warning delivery and newer helper APIs in a thin adapter, with Node conformance coverage including util.inherits.

[NathanFlurry]

Stack for rivet-dev/agentos

• #1869 test(runtime): cover rich media across agent adapters
• #1868 fix(codex): reject unsupported prompt media
• #1867 fix(runtime): address polyfill review edge cases
• #1862 refactor(runtime): use upstream file URL helpers
• #1861 refactor(runtime): remove dead builtin wrappers
• #1866 fix(runtime): use native RGI emoji regexp support
• #1863 refactor(runtime): remove bootstrap compatibility stubs
• #1865 refactor(runtime): bootstrap final event and abort globals
• #1864 refactor(runtime): bootstrap final URL constructors
• #1860 refactor(runtime): use Undici FormData
• #1859 refactor(runtime): use upstream Blob and File
• #1856 fix(runtime): align AbortSignal fallback
• #1855 fix(runtime): align DOM event fallback
• #1858 refactor(runtime): use upstream Web Streams
• #1857 refactor(runtime): use upstream text encoding
• #1853 refactor(runtime-browser): use upstream Node polyfills
• #1854 refactor(runtime): use upstream EventEmitter 👈
• #1852 refactor(runtime): share stdlib modules across ESM and Commo …
• #1851 fix(runtime): use upstream WHATWG URL parser
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