fix(runtime): align DOM event fallback

[NathanFlurry]

• Align the DOM event fallback with browser cancellation, propagation, and listener-option semantics.
• Add focused conformance tests for CustomEvent, passive listeners, and signal cleanup.

[NathanFlurry]

Stack for rivet-dev/agentos

• #1869 test(runtime): cover rich media across agent adapters
• #1868 fix(codex): reject unsupported prompt media
• #1867 fix(runtime): address polyfill review edge cases
• #1862 refactor(runtime): use upstream file URL helpers
• #1861 refactor(runtime): remove dead builtin wrappers
• #1866 fix(runtime): use native RGI emoji regexp support
• #1863 refactor(runtime): remove bootstrap compatibility stubs
• #1865 refactor(runtime): bootstrap final event and abort globals
• #1864 refactor(runtime): bootstrap final URL constructors
• #1860 refactor(runtime): use Undici FormData
• #1859 refactor(runtime): use upstream Blob and File
• #1856 fix(runtime): align AbortSignal fallback
• #1855 fix(runtime): align DOM event fallback 👈
• #1858 refactor(runtime): use upstream Web Streams
• #1857 refactor(runtime): use upstream text encoding
• #1853 refactor(runtime-browser): use upstream Node polyfills
• #1854 refactor(runtime): use upstream EventEmitter
• #1852 refactor(runtime): share stdlib modules across ESM and Commo …
• #1851 fix(runtime): use upstream WHATWG URL parser
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